"Everyone is dragged on by their favorite pleasure." ~ Virgil
There is a time when fucking is a form of Ibadah. And, no, I’m not referring to the tantric or the procreative sex.
Sex is supposed to be a kinky, healthy and yummy pas de deux - (or troi?) - communion with the Almighty. The saying goes that once the couple is shielded and the woman is clean, everything is applicable. Doesn’t that include fondling, foreplay and female multiple orgasms? Doesn’t that include bondage, role play and acrobatic poses?
Okay, I’m stretching it with the BDSM streak, but you’re smart.
There’s a hadith that says something about “If the wife rejects her husband’s amorous approach,the angels will condemn her until dawn breaks.” Who in their right mind would skip sex lest it’s really, really that awful? I’m inclined to reinterpret the hadith: "If the wife rejects her husband, he better start learning a couple of new tricks because he’s probably that boring a fuck”.
I’m just saying, the “Bismillah” at the beginning of those eleven minutes of romp means something good is supposed to be happening. For all the parties involved. Whether earthbound or sublime.
This is the part of religion not usually taught to young adults. It seems the topic of sex is taboo unless you plan to condemn it. Truth of the matter is, in Islam, foreplay and intimacy is as much a right of a woman as sex is for the husband.
ReplyDelete“One of you should not fulfil one’s (sexual) need from one’s wife like an animal, rather there should be between them foreplay of kissing and words.” (Musnad al-Firdaws Of al-Daylami, 2/55)
In fact, some traditions hold that it is forbidden to go straight for the 'home run' without the preceding foreplay.
Only things disallowed are the backdoor, and sex during that special time of month... so yes, as far as i can see, theres no reason not to rip open that copy of Kama Sutra.
Also, is BDSM strictly disallowed? I haven't heard anything against in terms of Hadith.
You know, because a lot of people aren't familiar with this aspect of sex, they think it's dirty per se.
ReplyDeleteAnd yes, if practiced within wedlock, it is counted as a good deed :).
I always tell me 18+ year old students, "Sex is clean. When people misuse it, then that's the time it becomes dirty." Talking about sex shouldn't be taboo when the focus is on how it should be used to forge a closer, more spiritual tie between men and women who have chosen to spend the rest of their life together.
Haha love this post
ReplyDeletesex is not a taboo,
ReplyDeleteIslam in my opinion revolves around sex,
virgins in heaven, i think thats a hint what degree of pleasure sex is.
sciol wise it's another story,
True story:
a married couple for two years, and worried that the didn't have a child yet, after examinations and lab work everything was fine for both of them.
while exsamining the women the doctor notced brusis on the women belly....
worried the doctor advised her to meet the hospital social worker, and the man too, to proper educat them about sex.
the serprise was when the doctors found that that man was trying to do his wife thru the BELLY-BUTTON!!!
I was like WTF???? does the women too don't know about sex, the doctor told me, that the woman didn't know how to inform her HUSBAND... she was afraid >.<
i was like, we are in the 21st century is there such people???
TV, MOVIES, magazine INTERNET!!!! COME ON!
End of story
Sex is best thing in the world, it's one of the most Entment experience between 2,3,4 or more ^.^"I know me and my wild imagination or is it>:)"
been reading a lot of SEX books and it's fascinating, all book agree that most people that they THINK they know they ARE the people don't really know.
nice topic....
now i need to get laid pronto *.^
cheers