Does it take only words to destroy or build everything?
When God said, “let there be light”, did He also set the general rule to how words are going to affect His creations?
There is a bunch of powerful words used in human interactions that bonds or separates, does or undoes. Words like “I do”, or “I divorce you”, are stuck in my mind right now. I didn’t think that just by saying “I do” people automatically transfigure into the perfect couples. Just as I think that by saying “I divorce you” doesn’t dissolve a marriage.
But it does mark the beginnings and endings, doesn’t it?
One way or another, words are all that it takes to define the beginnings of beginnings, and the endings of ends. Words cannot dissolve hurts and disappointments, children and assets, memories and longing; but – boy – those things sure get fortified in multitudes with the more words spent on them. Imagine saying, “I’m a chicken” few hundred times a day, chances are that by the end of the month you’d be fainting in every Tazaj and Albaik restaurant where you see your relatives on your plate.
So the possible reason why some marriages don’t work is because some couples forget to repeat the words that they started their marriages with. “I love you as you are, and I’ll be with you till I die, whether you like it or not.”
What’s so sad is that, despite of its irreversible finality, and because they’re so filled with the sense of hollow, words of endings seem to echo more persistently than any other word every spoken or thought about. “I miss you. I’m sorry. I’m leaving. Goodbye.”
And the ultimate words of a conclusion:
4 afterthinkers:
i see you added my blog like you said :-) yay thanks!
and about your post, nice one.
i stopped believing in marriage. but like they say, its something you have to do in life.
you forgot the punchline: "it's something you have to do in life...eventually, even if for a while."
I loved being married. but sometimes, being single is better. take care of your self, and your heart.
Words are very important.
Imagine telling someone they are worthless - all the time.
And the difference when you tell them they are wonderful and you love them every day.
Choose your words carefully.
True. :)
Thanks for the comment, Jewaira. Hope you had fun reading my posts :)
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